By: Sam Klee ‘16
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Aquinas College strives for an atmosphere of excellence on all fronts. Whether in
                                                the classroom, at work, or in sports, high standards of achievement are consistently
                                                fostered and encouraged. However, while these efforts are acknowledged internally
                                                daily, special recognitions from beyond our immediate community highlight the outstanding
                                                work done by Aquinas staff, faculty, and alumni. Take, for example, Aquinas alumna
                                                and former women’s basketball coach Patti Tibaldi, who was inducted into the Grand
                                                Rapids Sports Hall of Fame in the fall of 2013.
                                                
                                                Tibaldi, ‘73, was initially attracted to Aquinas by attending a “siblings weekend”
                                                during her senior year of high school, visiting an older sister who already attended
                                                the school. Rather than attending a larger state school, she opted mere months before
                                                first-year classes to register with Aquinas - a decision Tibaldi regards as highly
                                                fortunate. “I made great friends,” she said, “I really felt like I made relationships
                                                that were lasting, and those relationships are what really made it for me, together
                                                with the small environment in a great city. I loved my time here, I had a great experience.”
                                                
                                                Initially an English major, Tibaldi was encouraged by current Aquinas Athletics Director
                                                Terry Bocian take classes in physical education. These courses sparked a passion for
                                                coaching in Tibaldi, who was then recommended by Bocian to coach at West Catholic
                                                High School, in Grand Rapids.
                                                
                                                In 1978, Tibaldi was asked to return to Aquinas, to coach women’s basketball at her
                                                alma mater. For a time, she continued to coach at West Catholic and Aquinas simultaneously,
                                                so she had “a nice little feeder system going there.” She would continue to coach
                                                at Aquinas for seventeen years, leading her team to the National Catholic Basketball
                                                Tournament three times, winning the championship once.
                                                
                                                However, when reflecting on highlights from her coaching career, Tibaldi said that,
                                                rather than particular victories or games, working with the athletes--with students--always
                                                made the greatest memories. “I always felt that Aquinas was a great place to be, I
                                                still feel that way. I had absolutely great players there, I considered them part
                                                of my family then, and still do! I was able to follow them through their marriages,
                                                the births of their kids, their coaching, teaching, going off and being productive
                                                citizens. That has been the most satisfying thing.”
                                                
                                                Since leaving Aquinas, Tibaldi has been recognized by several awards, including the
                                                Basketball Coaches of Michigan Hall of Fame, the West Catholic High School Hall of
                                                Fame, the NAIA Hall of Fame, and the Aquinas College Hall of Fame. The most recent
                                                addition to this prestigious list is Tibaldi’s induction into the Grand Rapids Sports
                                                Hall of Fame, on October 8, 2013.
                                                
                                                “It’s very humbling,” said Tibaldi, reflecting on her induction. “When you’re in the
                                                middle of something you just put one foot forward, you don’t think about what the
                                                results are, you just keep trying to get better. I think that Terry Bocian and I really
                                                built something based on family, and it’s been really validating to me ... It’s a
                                                part of my life that, when I look back at it, I can hardly believe it’s gone. It was
                                                very hard for me to leave. But it is truly humbling to think that someone else values
                                                that. Obviously you have your memories, you have your successes and failures, but
                                                you don’t think that anyone else looks at that product and says ‘hey, it’s worth it!’
                                                And, obviously, the only reason that either Terry or I are in the Hall of Fame is
                                                because of the players we coached. I loved ‘em, I still love ‘em, and I think that
                                                was such a rewarding part of my life.”
                                                
                                                Reflecting upon Aquinas’ Dominican charisms, and how they relate to her time as coach,
                                                Tibaldi emphasizes that the strong sense of community is most readily identified.
                                                “I was very fortunate that Aquinas both attracted, maintained, and graduated tremendously
                                                successful women,” said Tibaldi. “I still send kids to Aquinas from Traverse City
                                                West, and rarely do I ever have one that comes back and says to me that they haven’t
                                                found a community there, that place where they can really thrive.”
                                                
                                                Asked to give a parting word to students who are considering Aquinas for their education,
                                                Tibaldi offers this advice, as an alumna and coach. “It’s a great place for you to
                                                learn about who you are. There are people there who care about you, there’s a sense
                                                of community there. The biggest point that I always stress is the relationships that
                                                you build. I really felt very strongly that it was a tremendous strength of Aquinas,
                                                the relationships between staff and students, students and students - the friends
                                                I made there were lifetime friends. I think that it’s so important for kids, who don’t
                                                know who they’re going to be yet, what they’re going to do (who does know at that
                                                age?), who need a supportive environment, and I think that Aquinas is a place that
                                                will nurture them.”